So, I have not been the greatest at keeping up on bump photos since week 29, as you may have noticed due to the lack of activity on the blog. But the last month and a half has been quite busy! Our flurry of activity has delayed quite a bit of Nugget related to-do's, not just on the blog. Luckily, however, Paul's goatee grew back quickly following his Movember trucker stache so we could still have our maternity photos before I get too uncomfortable in this preggo body! Thank you to our dear friend Katherine Benjamin for taking these lovely photos! They are great and capture our excitement perfectly!
After seven years of togetherness, we finally got married...now we're trying to figure out what's next on the agenda.
Monday, December 30, 2013
A Little Date Day in Seattle
We had a few hours between getting to the west side of the state and heading to the airport, so we decided that it would be a perfect opportunity to have a little date day in our former stomping grounds. The weather was slightly chilly for our Arizona thin blood but other than that, it was a truly beautiful day in Seattle.
Our first stop was to have lunch at Pike Place...nothing like fresh fish! Then attempting to find some Seattle based books for Nugget, which we are happy to report was a successful venture. Here are a few more snapshots of our day together. It sure was nice to have a moment to ourselves before heading back to reality.
Our first stop was to have lunch at Pike Place...nothing like fresh fish! Then attempting to find some Seattle based books for Nugget, which we are happy to report was a successful venture. Here are a few more snapshots of our day together. It sure was nice to have a moment to ourselves before heading back to reality.
| Nugget's first trip to Pike Place Market! Too bad he/she won't be able to remember it! |
Baby Shower in Washington
I was very fortunate to have a baby shower thrown for me while we were in Washington for a family visit before Nugget's arrival. My Aunt Dee with help from my sister-in-law Meggan put together an AMAZINGLY beautiful and very fun shower! I had a great time and it was lovely to see a lot of my family to celebrate the impending arrival of our little Nugget. Here are a few snapshots of the wonderful celebration...I couldn't have done it any better, it was impeccably planned and executed! Thank you to all of those that made it to the shower but mostly...thank you Aunt Dee for the wonderful shower!!!
Here are some pictures of the lovely guests...
Here are some pictures of the lovely guests...
| Gretchen, Cathy, Trish & Aunt Sharon |
| Aunt Gwen, Sarah, Maddy, & Peggy |
| Me & Grandma Gipson |
| Me & Aunt Dee |
| Me & Grandma Evans |
| Me, Aunt Sue & Sarah |
| Carolyn & Diane |
| Me, Amber and the Jersey for the Seahawk to be named at a later date :) |
Thursday, November 14, 2013
Complications of Pregnancy
So far the least fun thing about pregnancy has been the constant comments and/or judgments about my belly size. I get it, it's big, but really, is it necessary to say that it looks like I could go at any moment? No, it's not. And frankly, the rest of my body is pretty close to being what it was before I was pregnant, having gained only a total of eight pounds since before pregnancy. It probably shouldn't bother me, but when you grow up with body issues and struggle with weight throughout your life, people, random ones at that, stating you are 'big' do not help your mental state. Luckily, I have an amazingly supportive and kind husband that reassures me every time I'm having a bad body image moment, that I am in fact pregnant and am supposed to be larger than normal.
Aside from that fun one, a few other complications have arose as of late. The first being ridiculously swollen ankles and feet. We're talking cankles and/or bricks. These puppies are MASSIVE. It used to be that it would only happen if I was on my feet all day (our Halloween party was awful) or ate too much salt. But no, not now...it starts like this first thing in the morning and continues all day no matter how hydrated I may be.
Aside from that fun one, a few other complications have arose as of late. The first being ridiculously swollen ankles and feet. We're talking cankles and/or bricks. These puppies are MASSIVE. It used to be that it would only happen if I was on my feet all day (our Halloween party was awful) or ate too much salt. But no, not now...it starts like this first thing in the morning and continues all day no matter how hydrated I may be.
pretty right?!
And the latest, and not necessarily greatest development is that I have....gestational diabetes! Really exciting right?! Apparently my body, when pregnant, can't handle the amount of insulin the additional hormones produces. This condition affects roughly two to ten percent of the pregnant population, which means I'm not completely abnormal. And the good news is that it will most likely go away after the nugget makes his/her arrival. Until then, I have to watch what I eat. I will be attending a gestational diabetes class next week to get the full download on what to do. And as usual, I am completely grateful to have Paul in my corner. He's already planning meals and keeping me on track, as painful it may be as the holidays approach. Good thing I've gathered some diabetic dessert cookbooks over the years for preparing meals at holiday get together's...guess they'll be more handy than I ever thought! I will definitely miss some things though...Just have to remember its for the nugget and it puts it all in perspective. :)
Baby Bump & Nugget Progress
Sorry the posts have been a little delayed...not sure where the weeks are going! So, here is an overview of the last few weeks of bump photos...
All black still doesn't hide that bump!!!
It's AMAZING how the angle affects the 'size' of the bump in these photos! YIKES!!
No chalkboard photo for 28 weeks...
I don't have a purple chalkboard marker and the nugget was the size of an eggplant. :\
You have to admit...the drawing of the acorn squash is pretty good!! I even impressed myself ;)
So that's what you missed over the past four weeks. Just getting larger and larger. Surprisingly, however, my total weight gain for the pregnancy is at only EIGHT pounds!!! I know those around me don't believe it, since it seems I get nothing but comments like "OMG, you're huge! You're really not due until late January?!", but I had the doctor double check the weight gain.
The good news is, regardless of all the amazing comments I get about my size, is that the nugget is completely healthy. He/she is tracking perfectly in the 55% percentile for growth, already at about 2.5 pounds. Unfortunately, he/she is just like her daddy...shy!!! There was no getting a good face picture or a 3D ultrasound to show who the baby takes after more. Apparently the nugget wants to surprise us with more than his/her gender, he/she wants to make sure we don't know what he/she looks like either!!
Or the nugget didn't want mommy to know more than daddy since he was out of town for the ultrasound. Regardless, we love him/her and were relieved to hear everything is cooking normally in the womb!
Sunday, October 13, 2013
Fun in Mile High
Last weekend we got to go see my bestie and her family in Denver. I had never been to Denver and I have to say, it is fabulous! But the big draw for our visit was meeting Lori and Brian's new little bundle of Joy, Jack. And I have to say, he didn't disappoint...he's ADORABLE and such a good baby!
Here's Jack enjoying the blankie his Auntie Michelle made him.
Paul and I enjoyed lots of cuddle time with him.
Lori made sure we got to see a good portion of Denver while we were there so we could get the lay of the land and see all the city has to offer...and to be honest, to entice us into moving someday. :) While we were there we went to a hot spot for breakfast which was fantastic. And while eating there it SNOWED!!! In October!! The change of weather from Phoenix (94* when we left) to snowing in Denver was great. I got to wear boots for the first time this season and I have some great new ones so I was pretty stoked. :) Jack also had to bundle up in the chilly weather...his bear hat is adorable, but not nearly as cute as he is!
We also went to Red Rocks where they have lots of activities including concerts.
We also got to see quite a bit of downtown Denver when we went out to dinner. A special thank you to the Brisnehan's for watching little Jack while we went out to see the city.
Our time in Denver was GREAT...can't wait to go back for another visit since this one went way too fast! On the upside, I get to see Lo again in December!!! :D
Day Care Tours - Part 1
This post is only part one since we have many more tours to attend (or at least three more to round it out) and we haven't made a decision. One of the many perks of working for Verizon is that we have a discount program available on a lot of different products and services, one of which is day care. The downside is that since Verizon is a national company, the discounts apply to larger chain day care facilities. Of course, people have offered their opinions on the matter of larger facilities vs. in-home day cares and most are not in-favor of the larger facilities. However, we are going to continue our research and make a decision on what we feel is best for the Nugget both on a care level but also on an developmental level.
So far, we've toured two facilities...Bright Horizons and Tutor Time. Bright Horizons is near both of our work facilities which would be great if we ever need a little mid-day Nugget fix. The facility is large, has two infant rooms with a 4-1 teacher ratio and somewhat structured activities including reading, art and outside time. The facility was very clean as well, which is always good. The problem with this facility is that it would cost about $1300 / month. Although, if we have my mom watch the Nugget one day, which is the plan, it would be slightly cheaper...
The second facility toured was Tutor Time. They are part of a larger family of day cares. We were originally interested in La Petite near my work, however, that center doesn't have an infant room. So instead we were directed to the Tutor Time near our house...really near our house, which is good. They only have one infant room though so space is limited to a total of twelve kiddos. The don't really have a part-time program, you pay your monthly fee of $800 (w/ my discount...much better than the first place) regardless of days enrolled. But since we were only thinking of having the Nugget out one day a week, it would work and that way if my mom for whatever reason couldn't watch him/her for a day, we'd have a spot available. The facility is admittedly smaller, but the infant room is larger than those of the other facility and was also very clean. They too work on various developmental milestones with the kiddos, including getting them ready for the toddler room as they get old enough to transition.
Now it's just a matter of looking at a few more options before making a decision. For us, we want to make sure Nugget is in a place that is both nurturing and has education at the core of care. We feel it's important to have consistent caregivers that have been background checked and drug tested as well as a place that will work on developmental skills including speaking skills and learning letters, colors, numbers and shapes when appropriate. It's definitely a lot to ask for if we want to keep the budget within reason, but we are determined to find it. More on the hunt later...
So far, we've toured two facilities...Bright Horizons and Tutor Time. Bright Horizons is near both of our work facilities which would be great if we ever need a little mid-day Nugget fix. The facility is large, has two infant rooms with a 4-1 teacher ratio and somewhat structured activities including reading, art and outside time. The facility was very clean as well, which is always good. The problem with this facility is that it would cost about $1300 / month. Although, if we have my mom watch the Nugget one day, which is the plan, it would be slightly cheaper...
The second facility toured was Tutor Time. They are part of a larger family of day cares. We were originally interested in La Petite near my work, however, that center doesn't have an infant room. So instead we were directed to the Tutor Time near our house...really near our house, which is good. They only have one infant room though so space is limited to a total of twelve kiddos. The don't really have a part-time program, you pay your monthly fee of $800 (w/ my discount...much better than the first place) regardless of days enrolled. But since we were only thinking of having the Nugget out one day a week, it would work and that way if my mom for whatever reason couldn't watch him/her for a day, we'd have a spot available. The facility is admittedly smaller, but the infant room is larger than those of the other facility and was also very clean. They too work on various developmental milestones with the kiddos, including getting them ready for the toddler room as they get old enough to transition.
Now it's just a matter of looking at a few more options before making a decision. For us, we want to make sure Nugget is in a place that is both nurturing and has education at the core of care. We feel it's important to have consistent caregivers that have been background checked and drug tested as well as a place that will work on developmental skills including speaking skills and learning letters, colors, numbers and shapes when appropriate. It's definitely a lot to ask for if we want to keep the budget within reason, but we are determined to find it. More on the hunt later...
Family Visit
At the end of September, we were lucky to have some of our family come visit. Auntie Dianne, cousin Jenn, sister Amber and our nieces came for a week. Although we had to work during the week, we were able to get some quality time in on the weekends. We got to take the lovely Adalee and Emma swimming quite a few times, which was really fun. But the highlight for us was probably taking them to Build-A-Bear for an early birthday present.
Adalee picked out a puppy that looked just like Momo, and named her Baby. She was pretty excited!
Here are the girls watching their mommy give the new animals a bath.
Emma picked out a big fluffy bunny that Uncle Pauly helped her put together and bathe. Her mommy helped name it Chanel.
By the time we were done, the twins had fully outfitted new animals to take home with them. But first we went to the indoor play area at the Scottsdale Mall to let them get rid of their extra energy.
We were so excited to have some quality time with the family on our home turf!
Hope they come back again soon. :)
Tuesday, October 8, 2013
23 & 24 Weeks / Dressing the Bump
Sorry for the delay in posting recently...we've had a lot of activities and visitors! Here's the latest pictures of the nugget (although somehow week 22 is missing from the camera):
It's very interesting to see how day to day and week to week the nugget changes position and therefore gives a smaller or bigger bump. Above you'll note in week 23 he/she was sitting very high and then today, VERY low. And of course the amount of fluid I am or am not retaining at any given point makes me look larger or smaller, but lately...more on the larger side, if I'm being honest.
Dressing the bump has proven to be more challenging lately. I have procured some additional maternity pieces, however, they are really for fall and winter weather. And since we live in hell, I mean Arizona, it's still in the 90's so I don't have a lot of options. I did get to wear a lot of my fall/winter maternity pieces while in Denver, but AZ weather is beginning to grate on my nerves. Admittedly, it happens to me every year at this time when I'm ready for it to be fall/winter already, but adding limited wardrobe options to the mix makes it all the more annoying. Attempting to wear some of my dresses of my pre-pregnancy wardrobe has become pretty hilarious. They are just a tad bit too short in the front due to the burgeoning bump and since it's too hot for tights, I am struggling to find options that are work-appropriate. I cannot wait for the one day this week that will be in the 70's so I can wear tights AND boots! Watch out world...I will eventually be a fashionable preggo, it just may only one day a week until December.
It's very interesting to see how day to day and week to week the nugget changes position and therefore gives a smaller or bigger bump. Above you'll note in week 23 he/she was sitting very high and then today, VERY low. And of course the amount of fluid I am or am not retaining at any given point makes me look larger or smaller, but lately...more on the larger side, if I'm being honest.
Dressing the bump has proven to be more challenging lately. I have procured some additional maternity pieces, however, they are really for fall and winter weather. And since we live in hell, I mean Arizona, it's still in the 90's so I don't have a lot of options. I did get to wear a lot of my fall/winter maternity pieces while in Denver, but AZ weather is beginning to grate on my nerves. Admittedly, it happens to me every year at this time when I'm ready for it to be fall/winter already, but adding limited wardrobe options to the mix makes it all the more annoying. Attempting to wear some of my dresses of my pre-pregnancy wardrobe has become pretty hilarious. They are just a tad bit too short in the front due to the burgeoning bump and since it's too hot for tights, I am struggling to find options that are work-appropriate. I cannot wait for the one day this week that will be in the 70's so I can wear tights AND boots! Watch out world...I will eventually be a fashionable preggo, it just may only one day a week until December.
Thursday, September 19, 2013
Group Session / The Many To-Do's
This week we had our first group session at the midwives' office. They call it Family Circle. We met other couples expecting the arrival of their baby/babies in January 2014. So we did sign a confidentiality agreement...what is said in the group, stays in the group...so I can't say much. But I will talk about us in comparison to the others. We are the couple the least far along...although I swear my belly was as big as everyone else's. And we are the ONLY couple not finding out the gender. I have to say I kind of expected that at least one other couple would like the surprise, but apparently we're the only ones kicking it old school (and still talking like it's 2003 apparently).
What was kind of neat is that the partners of the preggos take their vitals before the group sessions. So Paul took my blood pressure, my weight (although I gained 2 lbs, I'm still overall under by 1.5 from before I was pregnant...odd, I know), tested my urine (TMI sorry) for proteins and the best part...he got to use the Doppler to find the nugget's heartbeat! He wasn't too successful this time, the nurse had to step in, but I'm sure in no time, Paul will be the fastest heartbeat finder!
Overall, it was good to know that other people have the same questions and fears as we do but it certainly didn't help my anxiety of all the things we need to do! Added to the list this week: research epidurals, cord blood banking, preparing a birth and baby plan...oh, boy!! I need a minion... :)
What was kind of neat is that the partners of the preggos take their vitals before the group sessions. So Paul took my blood pressure, my weight (although I gained 2 lbs, I'm still overall under by 1.5 from before I was pregnant...odd, I know), tested my urine (TMI sorry) for proteins and the best part...he got to use the Doppler to find the nugget's heartbeat! He wasn't too successful this time, the nurse had to step in, but I'm sure in no time, Paul will be the fastest heartbeat finder!
Overall, it was good to know that other people have the same questions and fears as we do but it certainly didn't help my anxiety of all the things we need to do! Added to the list this week: research epidurals, cord blood banking, preparing a birth and baby plan...oh, boy!! I need a minion... :)
Over the Hump
Here I am...21 weeks, and for prosperity's sake, I've included last week's pic to do a bump comparison. I think the nug has grown this week. Although I was still able to wear a pair of my pre-pregnacy capris today, unbuttoned of course, but zipped the whole way...so maybe he/she's in just the right spot.
So, we're officially past the half-way mark which is NUTS to me. And frankly, this thing got REAL this week! On more than one occasion, I thought, "I'm going to have our baby in my arms in less than five months, oh sh*t!". The reality of what we have left to do became very real and very overwhelming this week. Of course the lovely baby preparation blogs and websites don't help. The Bump.com, for instance, provides you with a pre-loaded checklist of all the items you need to do to prepare for baby's arrival. While on one hand, this is VERY helpful, and I do love me some lists, but on the other, it seems like there's not enough time to do all the leg-work required to actually check off the items on the list. You know, like find a daycare provider or a pediatrician. There is a lot of leg-work involved to make one little check box disappear from the list. And frankly, they're not the fun things about having a baby that are outstanding. Of course we've had plenty of thoughts and time spent on nursery decor, how to log nugget's development, baby names (not that it's been a particularly productive endeavor so far), etc. But thinking about the prospect of putting our innocent, tiny (theoretically of course), non-verbal child into someone else's care only three months after delivery is frankly, not a pleasant activity. Once we start touring facilities, I'm sure it will not be as bad as originally thought, but the anticipation of it is not fun...just sayin'.
So, we're officially past the half-way mark which is NUTS to me. And frankly, this thing got REAL this week! On more than one occasion, I thought, "I'm going to have our baby in my arms in less than five months, oh sh*t!". The reality of what we have left to do became very real and very overwhelming this week. Of course the lovely baby preparation blogs and websites don't help. The Bump.com, for instance, provides you with a pre-loaded checklist of all the items you need to do to prepare for baby's arrival. While on one hand, this is VERY helpful, and I do love me some lists, but on the other, it seems like there's not enough time to do all the leg-work required to actually check off the items on the list. You know, like find a daycare provider or a pediatrician. There is a lot of leg-work involved to make one little check box disappear from the list. And frankly, they're not the fun things about having a baby that are outstanding. Of course we've had plenty of thoughts and time spent on nursery decor, how to log nugget's development, baby names (not that it's been a particularly productive endeavor so far), etc. But thinking about the prospect of putting our innocent, tiny (theoretically of course), non-verbal child into someone else's care only three months after delivery is frankly, not a pleasant activity. Once we start touring facilities, I'm sure it will not be as bad as originally thought, but the anticipation of it is not fun...just sayin'.
Monday, September 9, 2013
19th & 20th Week Updates
Thanks to some feedback, I'll be sure to actually 'show off' the nugget bump in the weekly photos...no more blousy tops. :) Don't mind the lack of eye make-up or Ruldolph-esque nose, as the current book club selection has me crying A LOT!! Just saying...if you love your puppies like they are your kids, do NOT read You Had Me at Woof while pregnant and hormonal, just a tip. At any rate...here's the nugget @ 19 weeks (last week):
Today was our 20 week visit at the doctor's office. Although this will be disappointing to some...we did NOT find out the gender of little nug. We are holding steady at the waiting game...sorry! When we went into the ultrasound room (with Grandpa & Grandma Evans in tow) we made sure to tell the u/s tech that we didn't want to know the gender and Grandma & Grandpa weren't allowed to know either, no matter how much money was promised for the exchange of information. ;) What was really cool though is that the tech didn't even look so she doesn't know and neither do the midwives...it's all even, we're all in the dark! :) The nugget's heart rate was 157/minute and he/she weighs approximately 11 ounces. Everything looks good! Unfortunately, however, you can't really see for yourself...the stills of the u/s aren't that great, and it certainly didn't help that nugget was doing yoga (downward facing dog) during the u/s. Since it's hard to tell what's what, I labeled the picture so you can kind of tell what's happening.
We also obtained confirmation at today's appointment, that I am CLEAR TO TRAVEL for THANKSGIVING!!! Looks like we'll be Washington bound after all!! :)
Next week we'll be attending our first group appointment. Since we're using midwives in lieu of the traditional OB/GYN approach, we will be taking group classes with other couples that will also be having a baby in January 2014. We somehow didn't get the call for the first session, but the second is next week. We are pretty excited to meet some other couples expecting around the same time as us. And we're excited to take classes. We aren't necessarily nervous about what to expect when the baby comes, because we're fortunate enough to have lots of little ones around us, but it's always a little different when it's yours.
So that's the update for the nugget's progress for the last couple weeks...next post will have more details on the development of the nursery, although it's currently stalled out due to waiting for materials to arrive. More on that later...
Today was our 20 week visit at the doctor's office. Although this will be disappointing to some...we did NOT find out the gender of little nug. We are holding steady at the waiting game...sorry! When we went into the ultrasound room (with Grandpa & Grandma Evans in tow) we made sure to tell the u/s tech that we didn't want to know the gender and Grandma & Grandpa weren't allowed to know either, no matter how much money was promised for the exchange of information. ;) What was really cool though is that the tech didn't even look so she doesn't know and neither do the midwives...it's all even, we're all in the dark! :) The nugget's heart rate was 157/minute and he/she weighs approximately 11 ounces. Everything looks good! Unfortunately, however, you can't really see for yourself...the stills of the u/s aren't that great, and it certainly didn't help that nugget was doing yoga (downward facing dog) during the u/s. Since it's hard to tell what's what, I labeled the picture so you can kind of tell what's happening.
We also obtained confirmation at today's appointment, that I am CLEAR TO TRAVEL for THANKSGIVING!!! Looks like we'll be Washington bound after all!! :)
Next week we'll be attending our first group appointment. Since we're using midwives in lieu of the traditional OB/GYN approach, we will be taking group classes with other couples that will also be having a baby in January 2014. We somehow didn't get the call for the first session, but the second is next week. We are pretty excited to meet some other couples expecting around the same time as us. And we're excited to take classes. We aren't necessarily nervous about what to expect when the baby comes, because we're fortunate enough to have lots of little ones around us, but it's always a little different when it's yours.
So that's the update for the nugget's progress for the last couple weeks...next post will have more details on the development of the nursery, although it's currently stalled out due to waiting for materials to arrive. More on that later...
Monday, September 2, 2013
Baby Bump Growth - Up to Week 18
Ok, so as many of you are aware, saying I'm only slightly obsessed with Pinterest would be an understatement. So when I found this cute idea of what to do with belly shots, I couldn't resist. Here are the belly pics thus far...weeks 10 thru 18:
Tomorrow marks 19 weeks...new post to follow w/ the latest and yes, much larger (or at least in my head it's grown by quite a bit this week) belly bump.
Tomorrow marks 19 weeks...new post to follow w/ the latest and yes, much larger (or at least in my head it's grown by quite a bit this week) belly bump.
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