Monday, December 30, 2013

Baby Shower in Washington

I was very fortunate to have a baby shower thrown for me while we were in Washington for a family visit before Nugget's arrival. My Aunt Dee with help from my sister-in-law Meggan put together an AMAZINGLY beautiful and very fun shower! I had a great time and it was lovely to see a lot of my family to celebrate the impending arrival of our little Nugget. Here are a few snapshots of the wonderful celebration...I couldn't have done it any better, it was impeccably planned and executed! Thank you to all of those that made it to the shower but mostly...thank you Aunt Dee for the wonderful shower!!!








Here are some pictures of the lovely guests...
Gretchen, Cathy, Trish & Aunt Sharon
Aunt Gwen, Sarah, Maddy, & Peggy

Me & Grandma Gipson

Me & Aunt Dee
Me & Grandma Evans
Me, Aunt Sue & Sarah
Carolyn & Diane
Me, Amber and the Jersey for the Seahawk to be named at a later date :)



Thursday, November 14, 2013

Complications of Pregnancy

So far the least fun thing about pregnancy has been the constant comments and/or judgments about my belly size. I get it, it's big, but really, is it necessary to say that it looks like I could go at any moment? No, it's not. And frankly, the rest of my body is pretty close to being what it was before I was pregnant, having gained only a total of eight pounds since before pregnancy. It probably shouldn't bother me, but when you grow up with body issues and struggle with weight throughout your life, people, random ones at that, stating you are 'big' do not help your mental state. Luckily, I have an amazingly supportive and kind husband that reassures me every time I'm having a bad body image moment, that I am in fact pregnant and am supposed to be larger than normal.

Aside from that fun one, a few other complications have arose as of late. The first being ridiculously swollen ankles and feet. We're talking cankles and/or bricks. These puppies are MASSIVE. It used to be that it would only happen if I was on my feet all day (our Halloween party was awful) or ate too much salt. But no, not now...it starts like this first thing in the morning and continues all day no matter how hydrated I may be.
pretty right?!

And the latest, and not necessarily greatest development is that I have....gestational diabetes! Really exciting right?! Apparently my body, when pregnant, can't handle the amount of insulin the additional hormones produces. This condition affects roughly two to ten percent of the pregnant population, which means I'm not completely abnormal. And the good news is that it will most likely go away after the nugget makes his/her arrival.  Until then, I have to watch what I eat. I will be attending a gestational diabetes class next week to get the full download on what to do. And as usual, I am completely grateful to have Paul in my corner. He's already planning meals and keeping me on track, as painful it may be as the holidays approach.  Good thing I've gathered some diabetic dessert cookbooks over the years for preparing meals at holiday get together's...guess they'll be more handy than I ever thought! I will definitely miss some things though...Just have to remember its for the nugget and it puts it all in perspective.  :)

Baby Bump & Nugget Progress

Sorry the posts have been a little delayed...not sure where the weeks are going! So, here is an overview of the last few weeks of bump photos...

All black still doesn't hide that bump!!!

 It's AMAZING how the angle affects the 'size' of the bump in these photos! YIKES!!

No chalkboard photo for 28 weeks...
I don't have a purple chalkboard marker and the nugget was the size of an eggplant. :\

You have to admit...the drawing of the acorn squash is pretty good!! I even impressed myself ;)

So that's what you missed over the past four weeks. Just getting larger and larger. Surprisingly, however, my total weight gain for the pregnancy is at only EIGHT pounds!!! I know those around me don't believe it, since it seems I get nothing but comments like "OMG, you're huge! You're really not due until late January?!", but I had the doctor double check the weight gain. 

The good news is, regardless of all the amazing comments I get about my size, is that the nugget is completely healthy. He/she is tracking perfectly in the 55% percentile for growth, already at about 2.5 pounds. Unfortunately, he/she is just like her daddy...shy!!! There was no getting a good face picture or a 3D  ultrasound to show who the baby takes after more. Apparently the nugget wants to surprise us with more than his/her gender, he/she wants to make sure we don't know what he/she looks like either!!

Or the nugget didn't want mommy to know more than daddy since he was out of town for the ultrasound. Regardless, we love him/her and were relieved to hear everything is cooking normally in the womb!

Sunday, October 13, 2013

Fun in Mile High

Last weekend we got to go see my bestie and her family in Denver. I had never been to Denver and I have to say, it is fabulous! But the big draw for our visit was meeting Lori and Brian's new little bundle of Joy, Jack. And I have to say, he didn't disappoint...he's ADORABLE and such a good baby!
 Here's Jack enjoying the blankie his Auntie Michelle made him.
Paul and I enjoyed lots of cuddle time with him.

Lori made sure we got to see a good portion of Denver while we were there so we could get the lay of the land and see all the city has to offer...and to be honest, to entice us into moving someday. :)  While we were there we went to a hot spot for breakfast which was fantastic. And while eating there it SNOWED!!! In October!! The change of weather from Phoenix (94* when we left) to snowing in Denver was great. I got to wear boots for the first time this season and I have some great new ones so I was pretty stoked. :) Jack also had to bundle up in the chilly weather...his bear hat is adorable, but not nearly as cute as he is!


We also went to Red Rocks where they have lots  of activities including concerts.



We also got to see quite a bit of downtown Denver when we went out to dinner. A special thank you to the Brisnehan's for watching little Jack while we went out to see the city.

Our time in Denver was GREAT...can't wait to go back for another visit since this one went way too fast! On the upside, I get to see Lo again in December!!! :D

Day Care Tours - Part 1

This post is only part one since we have many more tours to attend (or at least three more to round it out) and we haven't made a decision. One of the many perks of working for Verizon is that we have a discount program available on a lot of different products and services, one of which is day care. The downside is that since Verizon is a national company, the discounts apply to larger chain day care facilities. Of course, people have offered their opinions on the matter of larger facilities vs. in-home day cares and most are not in-favor of the larger facilities. However, we are going to continue our research and make a decision on what we feel is best for the Nugget both on a care level but also on an developmental level.

So far, we've toured two facilities...Bright Horizons and Tutor Time. Bright Horizons is near both of our work facilities which would be great if we ever need a little mid-day Nugget fix. The facility is large, has two infant rooms with a 4-1 teacher ratio and somewhat structured activities including reading, art and outside time. The facility was very clean as well, which is always good. The problem with this facility is that it would cost about $1300 / month. Although, if we have my mom watch the Nugget one day, which is the plan, it would be slightly cheaper...

The second facility toured was Tutor Time. They are part of a larger family of day cares. We were originally interested in La Petite near my work, however, that center doesn't have an infant room. So instead we were directed to the Tutor Time near our house...really near our house, which is good. They only have one infant room though so space is limited to a total of twelve kiddos. The don't really have a part-time program, you pay your monthly fee of $800 (w/ my discount...much better than the first place) regardless of days enrolled. But since we were only thinking of having the Nugget out one day a week, it would work and that way if my mom for whatever reason couldn't watch him/her for a day, we'd have a spot available. The facility is admittedly smaller, but the infant room is larger than those of the other facility and was also very clean. They too work on various developmental milestones with the kiddos, including getting them ready for the toddler room as they get old enough to transition.

Now it's just a matter of looking at a few more options before making a decision. For us, we want to make sure Nugget is in a place that is both nurturing and has education at the core of care. We feel it's important to have consistent caregivers that have been background checked and drug tested as well as a place that will work on developmental skills including speaking skills and learning letters, colors, numbers and shapes when appropriate. It's definitely a lot to ask for if we want to keep the budget within reason, but we are determined to find it. More on the hunt later...

Family Visit

At the end of September, we were lucky to have some of our family come visit. Auntie Dianne, cousin Jenn, sister Amber and our nieces came for a week. Although we had to work during the week, we were able to get some quality time in on the weekends. We got to take the lovely Adalee and Emma swimming quite a few times, which was really fun. But the highlight for us was probably taking them to Build-A-Bear for an early birthday present.

  
Adalee picked out a puppy that looked just like Momo, and named her Baby. She was pretty excited!

  Here are the girls watching their mommy give the new animals a bath.
Emma picked out a big fluffy bunny that Uncle Pauly helped her put together and bathe. Her mommy helped name it Chanel. 

By the time we were done, the twins had fully outfitted new animals to take home with them. But first we went to the indoor play area at the Scottsdale Mall to let them get rid of their extra energy.


We were so excited to have some quality time with the family on our home turf! 
Hope they come back again soon. :)

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

23 & 24 Weeks / Dressing the Bump

Sorry for the delay in posting recently...we've had a lot of activities and visitors! Here's the latest pictures of the nugget (although somehow week 22 is missing from the camera):



It's very interesting to see how day to day and week to week the nugget changes position and therefore gives a smaller or bigger bump. Above you'll note in week 23 he/she was sitting very high and then today, VERY low. And of course the amount of fluid I am or am not retaining at any given point makes me look larger or smaller, but lately...more on the larger side, if I'm being honest.

Dressing the bump has proven to be more challenging lately. I have procured some additional maternity pieces, however, they are really for fall and winter weather. And since we live in hell, I mean Arizona, it's still in the 90's so I don't have a lot of options. I did get to wear a lot of my fall/winter maternity pieces while in Denver, but AZ weather is beginning to grate on my nerves. Admittedly, it happens to me every year at this time when I'm ready for it to be fall/winter already, but adding limited wardrobe options to the mix makes it all the more annoying. Attempting to wear some of my dresses of my pre-pregnancy wardrobe has become pretty hilarious. They are just a tad bit too short in the front due to the burgeoning bump and since it's too hot for tights, I am struggling to find options that are work-appropriate. I cannot wait for the one day this week that will be in the 70's so I can wear tights AND boots! Watch out world...I will eventually be a fashionable preggo, it just may only one day a week until December.